So there is a kid who did some work for me here at the house, then my sis had him do some work for her.

Nicest kid in the world...Fat, balding about 28...Very soft spoken...Probably gay which would make it hard in this area.

I personally don't care, but it has a lot to do with is life...He's too nice, he looks soft, he looks like a victim in the making.

He had to leave his state of Puebla, because he kept getting jumped, beat up and robbed...Last time leaving him with major injuries.

I paid him well and I'll help him if I can, but truth is no one can help him change his life but himself.

If you don't get meaner, leaner or at least look strong other people who are predators, will try to fuck with you and take what you have, be it food, money or just your confiidence and peace of mind.

As a kid I wasn't a tough kid...I was just lucky to be taller than most, so I was never really bullied or attacked...But the truth was that I was soft as a pillow.

I had that idea to try to reason with people and not fight...That violence was wrong.

I was a fucking idiot...I didn't understand how life worked.

After I joined the Department, I noticed the wolves and the sheep was an actual thing...Took me 2 years of tension, stress and acceptance that violence was necessary.

I had to re-wire my brain, to see it for what it was...That violence should never be your first choice, but that you needed to have it on the table ready to use though.

Some people say things or do things in real life like they think life is a cartoon, that no one will fuck them up.

Soon as someone says something THEY HAVE TO BE CHECKED...Because otherwise you'll carry the anger or the shame of not doing something.

There is no "Next time he or she says that I'll say this or that."

Too many ADHD kids have that issue...They literally can't control their mouths and are shocked when checked hard.

I have more than once grabbed people by their throat and the look of panic and shocked on their face, literally gets me pumped and probably a raging erection with the joy it brings me.

That's what's needed...Respect due to manners or respect out of fear.

If I get a chance, I'll recommend something to him...Sweetness, kindness used to be things that men aspired to, but truth is the world is cold an cruel and only way to get respect is out of the other person knowing that fucking with you will not be tolerated.

We all know that most bullies or predators look for weak people to victimize.

So sometmes, sometimes, sometimes you have to do SOMETHING EXTREME to set the policy that you are NOT the one to fuck with.

I don't think the kid has had a father figure to help him understand that...He's been implanted with the ridiculous idea that in order to be a "Good Person" you have to be weak and complaint.

That being nice means being soft...No.

Good guys do not win...There has to be some sort of edge to keep the bad people at bay.