Firstly, let me say WE men are usually the worst liars.

Constantly saying bullshit lies to get something we want BUUUUUUT I also think that wome lie the MOST.

So men do lie about bigger things, but women lie THE MOST in the form of EXCUSES.

Making excuses is a FEMININE TRAIT.

Sat back and thought about my last 5 favorite Wives/GFs, my sister and my Mama, magically NOTHING was ever their fault in their entire lives.

Now some people dislike me because I maybe a little bit Ableist, Transphobe, Homophobe, Racist, Hard Right Nationalistic, Cruel, Violent and like pineapple on my pizza.

BUT NO ONE CAN SAY I DENY THAT SHIT.

Nor has there ever been a breakup where I blame the girl for MY decisions in the relationship even if I was the one fucked over, because I CHOSE to stay there like a big dummy.

Or times I've cheated or was in the wrong where I haven't jumped on my sword, accepted fault and punishment if there was one.

Because I was taught...Good or Bad YOU are responsible for YOUR actions.

Sitting here I can remember ZERO times any of those 7 women didn't have an excuse why something wasn't someone else's fault.

So either I walked among fucking Saints or all the women I loved were LIARS.

No one just says the obvious:

1. "I fucked up...My bad."
2. "I totally forgot because I didn't take it seriously."
3. "I was a dumb ass and didn't want to take time to do that, till the problem was really bad."
4. "I had the money, but didn't want to spend it on things I needed, I wanted to spend it on things I wanted."

Just be honest, it would solve so many issues between the genders, work issues or your relationship with friends, family and your Significant Other.

"Am I getting Fat and will it affect our relationship?"  

YES...If you get too fat, I'll end up looking at other women/men and leaving sooner or later.

"Can you believe my wife/GF cheated on me?"

YES...You're a jerk, don't help with the kids or house and spend most of the money on shit you like...Then you're mean to her when she complains.

"Can you believe I got fired?  I do all the work there!"

NO YOU DON'T...You talk a good game, but never get anything accomplished and live off the work others do for you.

"I'm a great Mom/Dad!  Everyone knows this!"

NO...Your kids are dirty, loud and have zero manners, everyone is tired of their behavior.

Moral of the story?

Just be honest when you fuck up, quit making excuses, trying to minimize your part in it and if someone DID fuck you over?

Focus on HOW did that person get so close to you to fuck you over and did YOU ignore Red Flags/Warnings?

World would be so much better.