A gin and weeb games are a such good start to the weekend :D :D

Looong post...(Sorry I just need to dump this emotion somewhere. I don't have any friends left to dump it on...)

I think I don't enjoy spending time with my friend anymore. And this scaes me because I recently lost another good freind due to growing apart. And I don't want to lose this one too... I miss being careless just doing fun things forgetting the wories of the world for a while.

Today was not fun at all. Nothing at all like I imagined or how we planned the day: Just 2 gilfriends doing mundane girl things like shopping going for drinks and having a good time. That was the plan.

No, instead I spend the entire day people pleasing and enduring socializing with one of her old university friends we met, because she seemed to have a good time and I really wanted her to have a good time & fully enjoy this weekend as she has a lot of other troubles at home & I want to be her safe space/happy place.
I tolerated not doing any of the things we had planned, just to end the day with her emotion dumping on me how shitty and disappointing the reunion with her uni freind was and how no one wants to be friends with her if they don't benefit from her in one way or another...So I was the emotional Dumpster...

I am not meaning to blame her but she is doing the same thing to me: I am always her emotional dumpster who listends and gives advice. So she benefits from me. And all the things I want to do, the plans we made before are overthrown. By some kind of drama every time.
Last time we saw each other was the same: It was completely ruined, all plans were overthrown because of her bf making drama and me having to be the should to cry on and fix her up for most of the day. I am sick of spending "quality time" like this. I am always the one who's getting the short end and the disappointment.

And now I'm sitting here crying in frustration and disappointment beacue I really miss having my friend around and I want the carefree time back when we did the things we planned and had a good time: Go shopping and try on silly things for fun, go hiking and fool around in the autumn leaves, forget all troubles, laugh and just enjoy the simplest things in company of our comfort person.
All I want is to have something like this again:

That's a very good TV show...the surprise of the last 2 years...

#TVShows #tvshow #SylvesterStallone #tulsaking
https://movieweb.com/sylvester-stallone-tulsa-king-season-3-4-renewal/

The invitation thing is a good idea, but I tried to get a few hard hitters from the VF message board to join 5 years ago and they flat out refused. One even took a gander at who was posting and active and said, "Fuck no and the horse you rode in on!" Makes you feel kinda proud, doesn't it?

oh... weekend at last!
There's nothing better than sitting on your 'balcony' (more like an escape staircase) with a hot cup of tea in your hand and enjoying the cold late fall air.
And today I'm lucky that the party mile where I live is suspiciously quiet at the moment.

After such an exhausting week, it just feels soooo good

And just like that, I need to stay in the office whole day because one person decided it was a good idea to come see me 5 minutes before my shift was supposed to end.

HURRAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D :D :D :D

4:30 PM approaching and I'm on my way to get the ServiceNow certification. :D

So far the work day has been good, hopefully nobody is to fuck it up
and I get to go home at that time. D :D :D

LeftBehind Good old memories "Bubblegum Crisis - Opening | "Konya wa Hurricane" (There's a Hurricane Tonight) by Kinuko Ohmori" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=an_0IIRDlc4

Now that Trump will be back at the wheel, it's time to get back to good old fashioned family values, the likes you would find in a 1950's or early 60's sitcom. With JD Vance as his wingman and his Catholic goon squad legislating morality in the Supreme Court, it shouldn't take long to abolish all debauchery, sin, drugs, and just fun of any kind.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TonTGAfn2zI