I've definitely noticed a pattern and I'm not saying it's all women but definitely most that I know don't want you when you're single and into them but when you're taken they do....also with any women I've flirted with or hit on and gave tons of attention usually just want me as a friend so I stop doing all the flirting and all the sudden they're upset with me for not doing it. They really get upset if I stop flirting with them and flirt with another woman. It's like they want you to give them tons of attention but that's all your good for. I recently was like that with this woman and she'd make plans and cancel a lot and she just asked me to go with her to a movie and I said no and now she lost her shit.