This year was 16 years married (yes I am THAT old be nice lol) and I continue to laugh as his family always says wow another year married (they never thought we would make 6 months lol)and I always reply and no murder charges to where he replies not yet lol. Needless to say we keep his family on edge lol xD Relationships arent perfect. They are messy, chaotic, sometimes insanely unstable lol and if anyone says otherwise they are full of crap. With the good you will still have the bad but if you can work through the bad you can than once again find the good.