So instead of ranting on whats in my head I am going to go another way with this lol. Remember who is there for you, do not hate the ones who arent but know not to count on them again. Yes life can be difficult but each day is a new one WITH a chance for a better one tomorrow. No you do NOT have to forgive people and tell them that you forgive them you can simply forgive them and move on for your OWN peace. Dont gotta say shit to them. Be you, be happy, be authentic and dont let anyone tell you who you are because 99% of the time those who complain about who you are have no clue who they are.