The world is a very weird place. I just had a good friend/co-worker stop talking to me because they are concerned about something they did to me, and the consequences of there actions, we were supposed to go get food last week but that changed, they also ruined an experience of going to a concert for me as well so yeah. It's primarily on there end with anxiety they are dealing with as well as past trauma. (They dump an excessive amount of stuff at me a lot) there condition is holding them back, they do have BPD, kind of have noticed that there neediness, might not be all it seems and could just be excessive laziness (not 100% sure on that) we get along pretty well most of the time ,and I'm pretty nice and respectful, usually checking in with them after shifts, sticking up for them when a customer is being rude or misgendering them, and taking accountability for my actions, things were pretty great, untill they got pissed off at me for something and we stopped talking because they think they did something awful but won't tell me so I'm supposed to react or behave a certain way around them and if i don't it's my fault...?? they have a lot they need to work on in general., such as I asked them to do something romantically for me, yet they had a choice to NOT do it but they did instead, then blamed ME for there actions ? saying that "is it too much for me to tone it down a little for their comfortability?" oook ?? Staying in my own lane for now.
The world is a very weird place. I just had a good friend/co-worker stop talking to me because they are concerned about something they did to me, and the consequences of there actions, we were supposed to go get food last week but that changed, they also ruined an experience of going to a concert for me as well so yeah. It's primarily on there end with anxiety they are dealing with as well as past trauma. (They dump an excessive amount of stuff at me a lot) there condition is holding them back, they do have BPD, kind of have noticed that there neediness, might not be all it seems and could just be excessive laziness (not 100% sure on that) we get along pretty well most of the time ,and I'm pretty nice and respectful, usually checking in with them after shifts, sticking up for them when a customer is being rude or misgendering them, and taking accountability for my actions, things were pretty great, untill they got pissed off at me for something and we stopped talking because they think they did something awful but won't tell me so I'm supposed to react or behave a certain way around them and if i don't it's my fault...?? they have a lot they need to work on in general., such as I asked them to do something romantically for me, yet they had a choice to NOT do it but they did instead, then blamed ME for there actions ? saying that "is it too much for me to tone it down a little for their comfortability?" oook ?? Staying in my own lane for now.
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